Hi,
If you kissed someone but did not ever make love with them, your Ruling Chart for this relationship currently is the original date you first met face-to-face.
If/when you make love for the first time, that date will CO-RULE your relationship, along with your original first meeting chart, until/if you marry.
More info here: https://stg.magihelena.com/product/astrology-compatibility-ruling-chart-report/
Love and Blessings, Helena